What is domestic violence?
Domestic violence is a pattern of intentional, coercive behaviors that may include verbal, physical, sexual, financial and/or emotional abuse directed against current or former spouses/partners, parents, children or any family member, in order to establish and maintain power and control.
Some behaviors in this pattern are clearly criminal acts. Other behaviors are not necessarily illegal but are abusive and controlling, designed to intimidate or instill fear.
Victims of domestic abuse come from every culture, income group, age, and religion. They frequently share feelings of isolation, guilt, fear, shame, and helplessness. Intervention by the criminal justice system is often necessary, and, with support, victims can emerge as survivors.
Does your partner or family member:
- Threaten or intimidate you, your children, or your pets?
- Become extremely jealous or overprotective?
- Destroy personal property?
- Call you names or make fun of you?
- Treat your roughly - grab, push, punch, shove, kick, or hit you?
- Pressure you sexually?
- Use drugs or alcohol as an excuse for his/her behavior?
If you answered yes to ANY of these questions, you are at risk of being a victim of domestic violence.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE
- 4.5 million women report being abused every year in the United States.
- Domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women aged 15 - 44, more common than car accidents, mugging, and cancer deaths combined.
In April 1998, New York State passed legislation addressing the problem of domestic violence. Caseworkers in the Domestic Violence Unit assess claims of domestic violence made by welfare applicants &/or recipients to determine credibility, and to what extent the individual's safety would be jeopardized by fulfilling employment, paternity, child support, spousal support, or other welfare reform requirements.
These specially trained DV liaisons assist victims in gaining safety and independence from their abuser, whose control is often financial as well as physical.
The DV liaisons are also a resource for other county governmental divisions, and monitor the contacts of private agencies providing counseling and other non-residential domestic violence services.
For further information, contact the Domestic Violence Unit @ (716) 923-7483.
Your call is confidential.
Domestic Violence Permanent Tribute Will Honor Victims and Celebrate Survivors
ECDSS is part of a community effort to plan for a permanent and public tribute that will honor fallen victims and survivors, while also raising awareness of domestic violence. The Erie County Commission on the Status of Women is leading this ambitious community effort, entitled “Celebrating Life Through Awareness, Hope & Healing.” Many community volunteers have come together to develop ideas and plan logistics for the permanent tribute, and suggestions have included a tree grove or garden that would be a “quiet place where one can reflect on the journey and where those who could not make the passage are remembered always for their sacrifice,” according to one committee member.
More volunteers are needed for this project. Anyone with an interest is welcome to contact J. DeWald of ECDSS at Judith.firstname.lastname@example.org. The annual Break the Cycle Bike-a-Thon and Walk, to raise awareness of domestic violence and promote services will be held again in the Fall of 2013. Stay tuned for more information on this upcoming event.